First, I am placing a trigger warning: mental health, suicidal ideations. Second, If you can't help, don't want to help, or have something to say that isn't positive and supportive, scroll on. That's not my energy to take. Third, I have permission to post this. If you know me, you know that my lifetime bestie is Sarah. She's my forever ride or die, partner in crime and one of the most magical humans I know. Sarah and I have been each other's person for the entirety of our adult lives. We have been there for every big moment, happy and sad of each other's lives. Like many people, Sarah has dealt with mental health issues since I've known her. When she moved here last August, it was going to be a fresh start. We were determined to make the best of our neurospiciness. Sarah moved here and made the decision to live by herself for the first time in many many years, but about 2 months ago approached me with the idea (once again) of us living together. I've been in the process of selling my house, but as many people do (Sarah and I included) it meant healing some financial health after divorce. We knew that it would be a few months before we could make the move, so for now she would remain at her apartment. Last Sunday, after a particularly dark week of obstacles, she texted me that she had a plan and a means. She didn't want to live another day. 20 minutes later we were at the ER. Sarah is taking a much needed break in the hospital to adjust her medication and assemble a team that will help her manage her mental health, among other things. When she is discharged, however, she cannot go back to living alone. Between our various pets, and children, there really isn't a dedicated space for her to stay with me in the house. We won't be able to move for a few more months. Our emergency plan is to buy a camper with AC/Heat, water, etc to make as her space at my house. However, time is of the essence and I need to make this happen asap. We also need to pay to break her lease. In the wise words of Wayne of Letterkenny, "When a friend asks for help, you help them." I believe in the power of community and one of my community needs our support. Sarah needs the time and space to heal so that she can see the beautiful light she is. This is the only way I can see it happening. If you choose to help, I am so grateful to you. If you aren't in the position to help, that's ok too. I still appreciate you. Much love to you all.
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