Hi, Here I am once again asking for your donation. Wildflowerwonder is the amazing human being roleplaying Samantha Sanders on NoPixel. She is going through a hard time with what is looking to be a messy divorce and has been abandoned by the person she thought would love her most for putting her foot down and reporting physical abuse to the police. I will tell you right now I was very terrified that if she did not do this, Samantha would just stop coming around the server, and no one would know that Wildflower was dead. Significant others who are willing to strangle their partner are statistically more likely to kill their partner. Her story is below, but as a friend and as a human being, I cannot and will not turn a blind eye to abuse. Hundreds of thousands of women & children across this country and millions across the globe suffer from abusive situations that are hell to leave for so many reasons not the least of which is financial. It can often feel like "out of the frying pan and into the fire." Anything you can do, even $1 goes towards helping Tess get on her feet and start focusing on healing and moving forward. ~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ Hey all - I'm Tessa, or WildflowerWonder on Twitch. I play Samantha Sanders and Zoe Zaleski on NoPixel. Writing and posting this is exceptionally hard for me to do, to open up my personal life to the public and be vulnerable to the public. There's not much else I can really do in the interim, at least. I'll write the entire story down below for those who want to know. In short, my soon-to-be ex-wife, as the primary income into the home, abandoned me and her cat and our marital home on June 1st after an argument where the below issues occurred. I'm beyond thankful for every person I've met in the NoPixel community that has let me vent and cry over calls, that invite me to spend time with them even when I'm nearly quiet. It's been a blessing to have my smoll, cozy community I've fostered on Twitch and in my Discord. The small amount of support I had here in person, however, left with my soon-to-be ex. so I'm attempting to move in with a dear friend to Oregon for a stronger restart of my life. Every bit of donation gifted here will cover the leftover expenses that have tarnished my bank account due to her departure, fixing the flat tire of my car, and for food and bills while I'm here in Georgia. Anything over here will go directly into attorney's fees for the divorce and helping me move into a more positive support system and restart my life without the clouds looming. 2------ CW: Domestic Abuse, Spousal Abandonment, Divorce Very few people know about my personal life and for those who do know, have known or are involved in the intricate details. I’m IRL polyamorous and have been for over a decade. I prefer the kitchen table style of polyamory; whomever I’m dating I ask for their approval for long-term relationships so the dynamic of who we’re with fits well and is wonderful. My current relationships take precedence. It works when I’m not dating other women who will do what my ex and my future ex-wife has done. In November 2024, my exceptionally close to girlfriend of about 18 months threw heavy solid boxes at me, grabbed me by the hair and arm, and drug me out of her house because she was mad at me. Prior to this she’s pushed and hit me. We met with her therapist after it and she vehemently denied everything, including blaming it on me. She left without warning in mid November and left me and my wife with a house built for our family of five, plus dog. It’s been a struggle keeping it up, to be honest. I’ve been in therapy about this relationship but have had to recently cut that off due to the abandonment. In Jan. 2024 my wife, future ex wife now, choked me because she was mad at me. I communicated where I was going, who I was talking with about the situation, and at the end of a few days I came home to forgive her. Earlier this May she struck me again, pushing me and slapped me. I recorded the aftermath and she’s beyond upset. 3------ June 1st: My wife suddenly disappears and doesn’t reach out until the next day. She is somewhere and hasn’t returned since. She claims to have retained an attorney but I haven’t heard back. She was the primary income and last week she cut off tons of connections to the house that we both spent time and money towards. So far I still have gas, electric, and internet. She won’t tell me if/when she’s cutting them off and has blocked every contact I have with her to every capacity. I have very little liquid income for now (I’ve applied to places but with moving out of my home it's hard to comit to something when I'm going to be cross country in just about a month) as we both agreed I’d get another degree and focus on that and my hobbies after the exceptionally rough relationship and break up I had with my ex-girlfriend. When I transitioned I lost a majority of support IRL and with the abandonment nearly the rest of it left with her. I’m lucky to have one person very close to me helping me and encouraging me to dowhat I need to do, like speaking to law enforcement and finding an attorney who does family law instead of handling it all myself. I don’t even know really what to do at this point and this was a suggestion to make. *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~* Thank you for reading, and if you're not in a position to donate yourself, please consider reposting this LFEBridge for others who may be able to donate to see.
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