My mom needs help!! PLEASE READ!! Almost a year ago, I had finally made a fundraiser helping my mom to keep her apartment and be able to actually eat for the month. That stroke that disabled her happened almost 3 years ago, and I've been caring for her since then pretty much solo since I was 18, and now I am 21. But these past 2 weeks, my mom had another stroke, but this one has completely paralyzed her left side as well as has a new gaze to the right which impacted her vision a lot. My mother is immobile, needs occupational, speech, and physical therapy, and is far more ill than before in a way that I sadly cannot care for her physically, mentally, and emotionally anymore and am not qualified in the slightest for. I am not a trained CNA (certified nursing assistant) or RN (registered nurse) or even a trained in-home care specialist.. theres also no income coming from caring for her either. Because of this, she's been moved to a physical therapy center for care for a while, but costs are absolutely insane, at $1,748 A MONTH. That's basically rent. My grandma and social security is all the income we have right now and my mom and I have been put through the loop by medi-cal for YEARS. I can't do it anymore alone and hate asking for help but after this I know I can't just sit and be afraid to ask for help anymore, so please, HELP!! I just desperately need finances to help pay for the hospital/nursing care bills, rent, and utilities, anything at all would help even if its $2 like seriously just anything right now. All funds would go toward keeping us afloat and keeping my mom in much better hands than my own, I trust the doctors much more to help her. And I want to say I would be helping my mom and take it all into my own hands if I could, but truly after 3 solid years of not doing anything but caregiving, and not even being trained, I can say now that I am not qualified for it. I'm really not, especially now that she is unable to even walk, I need people who are trained in the field to help her, not me, as much as I wish I could do it. I just know if I tried to do this for another 3 years by myself she would get sicker, or I would get sick myself. If anyone, ANYONE at all sends ANYTHING, it would mean the world to me. Really. I'm just scared and tired and want my mom to be in good hands. I just want her to be happy and I know she would want me to be happy too. My mom and I and even my grandma would appreciate anything and everything that is sent, and would use it wisely. To anyone who has read this, or helped, or even just shared it around, i appreciate it. I have felt very alone in this situation for the past 3 years, but I'm learning I can't do this alone. So thank you ❤️
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