Watch the 3min50sec video above first. Any information about what has happened is explained in detail below. This fundraiser will be to retain lawyers to pursue Sansa Gulchuk and get her home. $10,000 to retain a lawyer in Texas. $5,000 to retain a lawyer in *Other State*. Full transparency. We have not seen Sansa (daughter) since May 6th, 2024 (70+ Days) while having every right to see her. "She" left with Sansa on May 1st to *Other state* with FULL AWARENESS and in agreement with me that she would return with Sansa to Texas on a return flight on May 10th, 2024. On May 3rd I was reassured "She" would be on a Return flight back to Texas with Sansa. On May 8th I was notified that she will not be returning with Sansa as promised. May 6th was the last day I or any of my family has seen Sansa. My family is from Washington State. I was born and raised in Washington State. My Family started migrating to Texas about 5 years ago. I moved to Austin, Texas with the FULL intention of building, starting & growing a family here. It takes so much to drop and move everything across the country. We have built so much as a family so far here in Texas. I have taken care of my mom, my brother & my sisters. Sansa's home is in Texas. Sansa was BORN in Texas. She was taken to *Other State* at 3 months old. ----History---- ---MORNING OF APRIL 30th--- I was told that "She" wanted to go to the store with Sansa so she asked for the keys. So I let her know where the keys were as I was waking up. She left with no problem. There were no issues. As she was gone she TEXTED me MULTIPLE times: "'If you do not WRITE OUT, SIGN AND DATE' an agreement on paper (which wouldn't do anything at that time) 'I will Flee with Sansa'". **THIS WRITTEN AND SIGNED AGREEMENT WOULDN'T BE VALID. ANYBODY MUST GO TO COURT TO GET THINGS SIGNED BY A JUDGE.** She also stated "I'm asking for FAIR... The reason you want lawyers involved is because you have all the money and you want sole custody..." I remained calm. I was very surprised. This was not true. **Around this time I mentioned to her that we'd go for custody/agreements through the courts BEFORE SHE WOULD ATTEMPT TO LEAVE TEXAS which is exactly WHAT IS SUPPOSED to happen. She may not have understood at the time and believed that money wins when it doesn't.** Because of her beliefs, she stated "This is Abuse... I'm In danger" because I wouldn't agree to write anything out, which again, isn't Valid in the first place. I stated ON TEXT: "We will work it out through the court. That is the safest and most stable route... If we are writing anything, there will be lawyers involved." ---AFTERNOON OF APRIL 30th---- She decided she was to take our 3-month-old baby across the country from Texas to *Other State* by DRIVING which COULD'VE been her plan that whole morning & I had no idea. After all the texts threatening to flee/Before leaving with Sansa "She" contacted my younger sister (Dani) through text to gather documents (passport, birth certificate) behind my back as she was down the street from the house. Dani came and knocked on my bedroom door to show me what text "She" sent her. I walked outside with the documents in total confusion. I was calm, and was recording myself as well with voice memos asking "What's going on" as she screamed, "GIVE ME MY DOCUMENTS." Mind you, she had OUR vehicle (which we only had one) and OUR child in the back seat. I remained calm and walked back in which can be proven by witness of my mother and by voice memos. I was imploding. I decided to not speak to her through text or phone as she abruptly left to *Other state*. I simply had my mom text her so that way I could remain calm and keep my composure. I truly wanted to make sure I wouldn't get myself in trouble as she had OUR only vehicle which was in both of our names, and also had OUR only child which was created by.. both of us! All of this was going on and I still texted her "Stay Safe" because I CARE. TWO HOURS go by with the thought that she was driving across the country with Sansa which was MISERABLE for me. Every second that went by I was sad, angry, stressed, worried, ALL OF THE EMOTIONS over my daughter being gone, and "Her" possibly putting Sansa in a dangerous position at ANY point of the anticipated drive. Just for her to text me two hours later with another ultimatum that I sign a piece of paper and she would drive back to the house. Also mentioned that she would stay at a friend's house until the flight (May 4th). She stayed the night at her friend's house. I stayed strong and kept my composure the best I could. **We had a scheduled visit to see our families from May 4th-10th. We had one flight TO Seattle, WA from Austin, TX on May 4th, 2024. Another flight FROM *Other State* to Austin, TX on May 10th, 2024. She decided to leave early with Sansa on May 1st although I advised her to wait until the 4th for our original scheduled flight (Cost-effective).** ----MORNING OF MAY 1st 8:38am---- The following was stated by her ON TEXT MESSAGE to me while at her friend's house in the morning (In Texas), acknowledging Her and Sansa's return to Texas after the Family visit as stated above: "I'm staying in Texas" **It was understood she is not moving or staying there in *Other state* permanently with Sansa in agreement/understanding with me** "We can go through court proceedings (Over Sansa)" **This shows she came to her senses OVERNIGHT and understood that it was okay to go through the courts which we are required to do. Also, IT WAS NOT ABUSIVE FOR ME TO SAY THAT (as she stated) the day prior.** "If you (Julian) allow after our agreement is made, I'll go back to *Other state* permanently" **She would not ASK for me to ALLOW her to stay in *Other state* permanently WITH SANSA if that was the original plan (as she now claims on this present day). THE PLAN WAS TO VISIT OUR FAMILIES AND COME BACK TO TEXAS WITH SANSA.** "If you'd allow, I'd like to leave today (With Sansa on May 1st instead of May 4th which was not originally planned) and fly back with you (With Sansa on May 10th as originally planned)." **IF IT WAS PLANNED OR AGREED UPON THAT SHE STAY IN *Other State* WITH SANSA SHE WOULD NOT BE ASKING OR SUGGESTING THESE THINGS. IT WAS NEVER THE AGREEMENT/UNDERSTANDING TO STAY IN *Other state* PERMANENTLY WITH SANSA.** "I will bring baby (Sansa) by (our home at the time) so you can say goodbye to her until May 4th" **Which was the original scheduled flight plan, but now I'd be without her until then.** She then showed up from her friend's house to our home (at the time) with Sansa around 9:30 am. At this point, I am emotionally wrecked. As I'm waking up, I turn on the Voice Memo recording and don't talk AT ALL for Legal purposes. **The mood was quiet, calming, and enjoyment of our daughter** She stated in person: "I want to come to a 50/50 agreement" (Proof by voice memos) Mid-conversation she asked: "Do you want to change Sansa's diaper?" (Proof by voice memos) **Although I was angry, sad and so much more, I LOVE SANSA. I remained silent, got up and changed Sansa's diaper because I wanted to. That's my baby <3** (Proof by voice memos) Toward the end of the conversation, she asked: "Do you want to drive us to the airport?" (Proof by voice memos) **NOBODY IN "DANGER" WOULD BE ASKING ALL OF THESE THINGS, LET ALONE SHOWING BACK UP TO THE HOME WITH A CHILD." **SHE WAS NOT IN DANGER.** **She was never in danger (which is proven and can be proven again). She would've never shown back up to the doorstep or tried to establish anything over Sansa.** **My family lives here at the house btw. They are witnesses to this all* I chose not to respond to anything for Legal purposes as I feel she would've used anything against me and I had to be careful with my actions (as always) and my words.** I was without Sansa for 4 days from May 1 to May 5th. From May 1st-5th I retained Legal Counsel. I got advice from my lawyer that the goal was to make sure "She" brought back Sansa to Texas to make things easier for both parties. To ensure that, I was to remain calm & avoid conflict while on the trip which I did and had no intention of creating. Also, I made sure that Sansa was able to experience one-half of her family without STRESSFUL ENERGY even though she may not understand. If that took me walking away at any time from my Family while "She" carried Sansa around my family, then that's what I did. Sansa was around my dad's family and my mom's family on separate days. A few days go by as she visits her side of the family. ---AFTERNOON OF MAY 8th--- At 3:01 pm I receive this text from "Her": "I'm going to stay. Do you want to see your daughter (Sansa) before you go back to Texas?... It would be hectic for Sansa and I to stay in Texas with no help... Maybe eventually we can talk about moving closer once I am financially independent from you. **WE HAD A CHILD TOGETHER. I WAS ALL IN. TO BE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT AT THAT TIME WAS NOT POSSIBLE WITH THE CIRCUMSTANCES THAT SHE WAS A STAY-AT-HOME MOM. ESPECIALLY WHEN WE HAD JUST HAD A CHILD. I WAS WILLING TO HELP HER WHEN SHE CAME BACK TO TEXAS AS YOU'LL SEE IN MY RESPONSE.** I responded calmly/composed as much as I could: "I know it hasn't seemed that way because it's our trip. But I'd love to help. Again, It's just that we're on this trip. But I think it's best You go back to Texas so I can be close to Sansa... Hopefully, you can keep your word & stay with your friend." **To "stay with her friend" in Texas was for the time being, had we decided to live apart during the time of getting an apartment for her and Sansa, WHICH I WAS VERY WILLING TO DO. I WANTED TO.** Overall, her reason for why she decided to stay in *Other State* with Sansa was that Sansa wouldn't be supported in Texas. Quite literally, Sansa has a HOME here in Texas with me, regardless, and would have a home here with "Her" if she allowed me to provide that for Sansa. I insisted on helping our situation for the stability of Sansa which I was happy to do as a father/dad. I was told I didn't seem like I cared while on the trip when my goal was to try to avoid all conflict on the trip to make sure she got back on that flight (as suggested by the attorney at the time), because times were very critical and sensitive. I maintained composure rather than arguing in front of my family. Ultimately I wanted Sansa to experience her Fathers (I) side of the Family. **I have never wanted to force "Her" to leave or stay anywhere because I have no interest in that. What could I have done in this case?? The only thing, go the court route. She expected that I still wouldn't take her to court and that I should LET IT BE after all she's done so far to take Sansa away from me. At this point, I'm in Texas & she is in *Other State* with Sansa.** ---AFTER SHE STAYED IN *Other State*--- I have been told by her: "You were barely ever around her" "I am all Sansa has ever known" **I WAS WITH/AROUND HER EVERY SINGLE DAY. EVERY SINGLE MORNING, AFTERNOON & EVENING. I WORK FROM HOME. I'M A STREAMER. I WAS THERE EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. EVERY BATHTIME. EVERY APPOINTMENT. AS MANY TIMES AS I COULD CHANGE HER DIAPER I WOULD. I LOVED CHANGING HER POOP DIAPERS. I WAS THERE TO PLAY WITH HER. TO CRY WITH HER. TO SMILE WITH HER. TO TAKE PICTURES OF HER. TO LOVE HER AS A FATHER. I HAVE NEVER/WOULD NEVER NEGLECT ANY OF MY CHILDREN I DO AND DON'T HAVE YET.** (Proof with pictures/videos, MY FAMILY & a WHOLE COMMUNITY) When I say I have LITERAL proof that I was, I mean it. 95% of her pictures of when Sansa was in her belly, when Sansa was being birthed, when Sansa was born and living are because I was there EVERY SINGLE DAY as the photographer and I loved it. I did everything a man should do to be there for our daughter. To all the fathers out there, If you know, you know. I want to say this clearly, and anybody who knows me knows this: "I would die for the children I DO and DO NOT have yet. Line up all of my children in front of me that I Do and DO NOT have yet. Take my Life. At 24 Years of age." I say that with all of my heart. I'm committed. I've BEEN committed. I know what's the most important thing in the world. I am young. I make mistakes. I take full accountability for my mistakes and bad decisions as a man. But I can assure you, I'm ALWAYS going to improve and get better not only for myself but for the people around me. This is all so wrong. My whole family is sad. This is terrible & heartbreaking to see/live with, for us. I am now chasing Sansa, who is with "Her", through the courts which requires retaining Lawyers. I have spent over $10,000+ of my own funds to 1) Retain different attorneys. 2) Getting court documents filed. 3) Trying to chase her. I paid for a hearing to be Set for July 27th which took lots of preparation, and I decided to drop it (as discussed with my attorney) because She and I had come to an understanding/agreement early in July. She then flipped back and decided to not move forth with that agreement/understanding. The longer she is in that *Other State* the more she is "established". Unfortunately, This is very time sensitive. I tell you the amount I have spent because I want full transparency here with anyone who reads this, and that I'm not just coming and asking the world for their help. I've done what I can. This is the LAST THING I WANTED TO DO. I stayed up 3 nights before actually getting the courage to ask for help. We have not seen her in 70+ days. We need you guys. Our family has come to the world with the understanding that my career/reputation could be on the line. To reach out in this way could be seen as risky. This means everything to us. We have the full intention of Getting Sansa home as correctly as possible without affecting the other party in any negative way. Thank you so much for reading this. We just want Sansa back home. Any and everything helps. If you cannot donate, please share this. THANK YOU, from the bottom of my heart.
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