Hello my name is Kayla Head I am 20 years old, my father was Terry Bain Jr. and he recently passed away this last Friday June 7th 2024, he was diagnosed with congestive heart failure a few years ago and then when going in and out of the hospital for that he was diagnosed with Covid which attacked his lungs, killing him . I am his only daughter and only family he has in the state of California, so all of his memorial costs and debt has fallen onto me. I am struggling to even pay rent or get legal tags on my vehicle let alone the burden of my fathers end of life costs. I am someone who lives paycheck to paycheck and puts everything to my family, as we have never had very much. The day he passed he was transported to Sutter hospital in Santa Rosa where he died at approx. 10 am. and I was not informed until 5pm, I was also told by his neighbor that people were stealing his belongings before I was able to get to his house, everything he left me to cover his memorial services has been stolen and the police are telling me it’s a “civil” matter and will not help me. To add to the chaos the hospital lost my fathers body, they said the mortuary had him but the mortuary had no record of him ever being there, the hospital says they have “no records of him” either. Debbie Foged of Adobe Creek mortuary was a saint through the whole situation and even ended knowing my father through her brother from high school, I bless her soul. She contacted Sutter hospital and had someone walk down to their morgue and personally look, only to find they actually did have my father in their care. When I tried to gather the personal belongings from Sutter hospital they told me they did not know where his belongings were and would contact me, then the next day when I saw Debbie she had already taken care of everything for me. Now I struggle with the costs of his cremation and old debt as well the moving of all of his belongings as it is almost a hour drive to his house from mine which makes it hard enough already with gas. I am starting this go fund me in hopes that maybe just a few people could help me in any way possible to help relive some of the stress through these tough times as I haven’t even really been able to sit and except the fact that he is actually gone. My father had lots of friends and was always one of the first to offer help so I hope that someone will be able to return the favor. As soon as I am able to cover his costs I would love to hold a celebration of life for any family and friends that would be interested in attending, I just currently can’t afford to hold any services. He had lots of photos of him and his friends that I would like to be able to give them as he was loved by all and only 53 years old. He will be greatly missed by all and never forgotten. Thank you, anything helps.
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